BURNING POT BY PRINCE CHARLES DICKSON, PH.D. Nigerian children, Nigeria's future pcdbooks@yahoo.com "It is 9 o'clock, do you know where your children are?" Frank Olizeh, popular retired NTA anchorman I originally wrote this some four years ago under the title; That Nigerian Child...Of Ours, today I am updating it. It's Easter, and a sizable amount of Nigerian children are on vacation, we called it holidays during our time. This admonition to beloved Nigerians ordinarily was 'The Nigerian Child', sadly as I reflected I found it difficult to even define the term anymore, just like the 'Nigerian Dream', a lot of things seems to be eroding Nigeria, I guess the only thing remaining probably is the Nigerian spirit, the resilience and the myth, and forgive me if I add our collective foolishness for what it's worth. So I deviate from all the politics, the monies that are orphans or the millions and billions depending on which currency; whose paternity and relationship has become a strong questionable matter, to ask you, to ask us, do we know where not only our kids are right now, but how our actions today affect them? Simply answered, some of us would say, the sitting room, in the parlor, bedroom, children's room, and all sorts of rooms. They could be at the neighbors, or holidaying with big aunty, uncle, grandma or pa...for those with the reserves the children could be vacating not necessarily holidaying--a lot would understand my drift, as these days, while children of the masses manage a holiday, 'their' kids do vacation. In the next few paragraphs I will tell quite a lot of us where our children are, while they are right under our noses, they have gone far away...today that Nigerian child can barely speak his local dialect, unless he lives in the suburb where English is restricted to pidgin, that Nigerian child is divided by those that never will get the Montessori education because they have to make do with the now non-existent local government education authority education where Maths is taught in Yoruba for better understanding. That Nigerian child is the very shadow of his/her parents today--they cannot recite the National Anthem, or Pledge, they are experts at foreign nursery rhymes that depict heroes alien to us, so much that our own heroes and their labour are fast disappearing. The other kids that can manage to recite it, simply mock it..."I pledge to serve my country is not by force..." Do you recall when this phrase was popular--'kneel down, close your eyes, and hands up' or 'pick a pin', when we were given a whole exercise book to fill up with the sentence, ' I promise not to...(depending on whatever crime committed). We have come to refer to it as the good old days, yes the days of Onward exercise book, and the 2x2 timetable at the back, and I recall the years of waiting before one would wear his/ her first trouser/skirt to school because you were now a senior. We folded our textbooks with used newspapers and calendars and a whole family used one particular text 'Understanding Mathematics' and after six years, it was still crisp clean although not many of us still understood the Math. So what happened to that Nigerian child, he/she now if they must write on exercise books, had to use the one with the picture of Lionel Messi or Chelsea, we call it globalization, but really what is global about your child that cannot write a narrative essay of how his/her last holiday was spent. Where is your child, he/she is preparing for one of the reality television shows, rather than read, as Google everyday is taking the place of group study. Our kids are viewing Penguins of Madagascar, why not Eagles of Nigeria at least. That Nigerian child has stopped to recite the states and their capitals, my son knows more about Abraham Lincoln, George Washington than he does of Awolowo or Ahmadu Bello, and doesn't understand why Nnamdi Azikwe, is called Zik of Africa. We are so concerned about the future that we are hardly paying attention to today. Our children do not really do the good old arts and home economics or agriculture, what we have is a mockery by Tom, Dick and Harry Private Schools littered all over the place. Where are our children, the ones that can run during the inter-house school's competition, the ones that would play the principal's cup? We have and keeping raising shopping mall and ice cream children, while 10 million other children of school-going age are watching. Where are you kids, in some private school, but we simply forget that in some states teachers have been perpetually on strike, so for a minute reflect, where are those children going to...? When last did you hear the phrase..."panel of judges, co-debaters, guests and friends...I am here to tell you that PDP and APC are the problem of Nigeria...". No, on the contrary we are only treated to the once a year school ritual of prize giving for children that we really do not know where they are. So why express surprise at the quality of debate and intellect on display on the floor of the National Assembly. A lot has and keeps changing but should our value system been thrown away because we are evolving, because suddenly a 6year old has a phone and the only form of flogging he gets is for his parents to say "Magu you are grounded...” Just like the loots are grounded in various safe houses, we spare the rod, we spoil the children and we are upset that corruption is eating up our fabric, like we are not the same parents that instruct teachers not to exercise corporal punishment on our children. So you think you know where your children are, do these children of yours ever read the newspapers, certainly no--we are protecting them from the nuisance we adults have become, but social media is exposing the fact that #ourmumudonset#. When last did you see a kiddo reading a James Hadley Chase, on the contrary, we watch Harry Porter with them, and do PlayStation with them, after all it sharpens their brains. Maybe in those days of yore we were too scared of our father, or too close to our mom, but someone tell me what was wrong with it, that we changed all so soon, to this point where we are loosing our children, loosing our innocence to an age of black and white berries, face and back books, IPads and all sorts of pads. Where is your daughter, I hear you say she's by my side, tell us the truth, is that not because it is one of those rare days. We have practically raised house help/domestic staff children because we are busy stealing; sorry I meant looking for money. So these days, the young girls cannot boil hot water, fast food children and the boys are not different, get a bulb on by the switch and he says, "I am not sure I know how it's done". These days we talk so much politics, but how about our homes, that Nigerian child that is taught to lie his father, and learns about abortion from the mother. The stark reality stares us in the face; by 2030 what kind of Nigerians would we have, after we have bought examination questions for them, when they have seen us live extremely far above our earnings. Today the events in our polity are all there in social-sphere, government magic and the confusion in leadership, despair and division amongst citizenry is glaring to our kids, whither way Nigeria’s future—Only time will tell.

All children are gifted

    All children are unique in their areas of gifting, so i make bold to say no child is dull or unintelligent. Based on my experience with children, i have discovered that there are three categories of children in terms of their learning abilities. They can be grouped into; 

(1) the visual learner

(2) the audio learner

(3) the kinesthetic learner

    The visual learner learns easily when you have a whole lot of teaching materials displayed. These teaching materials can be projected, brought to the class, displayed so they can see and identify with them. The visual learners engage their learning capacity when they see what they are being taught. The audio learner loves engaging their hearing capacity. Once you give them a vivid description of what you want them to learn, they creatively form the image of what you are describing and that stays with them.

   Lastly, the kinestethic  learners are full of energy, they do not stay in a place while learning. Alot of people refer to the kinesthetic learner as 'restless'. They usually move about while learning.

All children are fantastic and are great learners. A child can have two or all of these traits. It does not mean the child is weird. Approach of teaching may vary as regards these children and their temperaments. Next time, we shall discuss how we can bring out the best in these children and how to discover their gifting.

Children, a rare gift

     Children are a rare gift from the Almighty God and they should be especially loved and cared for. Apart from the fact that we need to give them the basic necessities of life like food, clothing and shelter, one of their essential right is the right to education. Education to be given should not be gender-based, it should be for all children regardless of status, colour, tribe and gender. This blog is going to be focusing on how to help children grow and learn in every possible way.
     There would be materials that would be available for download which would help children in these areas: Quantitative reasoning, Mathematics, Verbal reasoning, Phonics, English language, General knowledge and Current affair and subjects that deals with morals and values.Check out some sample questions on morals and values with a bit of home economics;

1.    All these are elements of a people’s culture EXCEPT (a) the way they dress (b) the way they think (c) the way they build their houses (d) the way they speak their language

2.    ________ is a word that describes everything around us. (a) evaporation (b) land (c) things (d) environment

3.    The group of people who controls the public affair of the local government areas are known as _________

4.    Marriage between a man and many wives is called ________ (a) monogamy (b) polygamy (c) big family (d) polyandry

5.    What is the full meaning of ATM? (a) automated telling machine (b) automated tearing machine (c) automated teller machine (d) automated trimming machine

6.    Respecting the view of others brings __________ (a) misunderstanding (b) quarreling (c) cooperation (d) disunity

7.    Which of these best describes ‘on-the-job training’ (a) getting trained before working (b) getting trained after one has retired (c) vocational training (d) getting trained while working

8.    All these are forms of transportation EXCEPT (a) rest (b) land (c) water (d) air

9.    My aunt’s son is my ______ (a) brother (b) sister (c) cousin (d) nephew